In episode 47, Carrie so graciously fills our heads by asking, “Is there such a thing as relationship karma?” Phew! That was a close one, the very thought of typing out such a question made me think the world would blow up. Relationship karma is a very loaded term. I sure hope it doesn’t exist, because then we are all in serious trouble. Karma is so strong, and for those of you who don’t know what karma has in store for you, according to many religions, it is a belief of a cause and effect type of situation. Karma can not only affect you in this lifetime, but in all future lifetimes and it can never actually be escaped. Whatever you do you should be prepared for the repercussions.
It really makes you think doesn’t it? Not only in terms of relationship, but the way you treat all living things on this earth. Karma is nothing to fuck with, because it will always come back around, full circle. Don’t worry; I won’t start preaching about repenting or anything like that. I don’t think it is ever too late to improve one’s karma. You have until your last days to improve it that is just my opinion. But we are dealing with relationship karma. I don’t think there is such a thing. Sure karma itself exists, but not when it comes to matters of the heart. It is that individual who carries that baggage and the mindset from their previous relationships that affect their current ones. People carry the karma with us, in our minds to the next relationship. If one can only escape their minds, then worry about the new relationship or else you become the victim.
This can be proven time and time again. I have a friend who takes her old relationship with her all the time, in to her new ones. Whatever bad happened before could be forgotten, but she won’t let it. That is not necessarily karma, but her being her worse enemy. All the hurt and pain from one relationship will only bring hurt and pain to another relationship. This can easily be fixed. A person needs to heal themselves before bringing that pain into their new relationship. Clear your mind, free your heart, take control of yourself and your emotions to save you in the new relationship.
My last relationship was a disaster, but my new relationship has nothing to do with the old one. That is how everyone should look at it. There is no such thing as good karma and bad karma, but there is balance. A cycle, or a circle of balance. If you leave karma to determine your fate in love, then I must ask who controls your relationships. You? Or karma?
What Goes Around Comes Around originally aired
1 comment:
that is so true and it is karma
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