Old Dog, New Dicks

Episode 21: Can you change a man? LOL! I just have to be blunt for a second, pull a Samantha. You can change a man if the sex is good. If you can keep him satisfied. Oh hell, if you can fuck his brains out on a regular basis. A man will do just about anything if his dick is happy. I’m sure you may be surprised by my vulgarities, but come on, it is SATC. You have to be able to expect the unexpected when dealing with a show such as this.

I think a lot of men fight against being changed. But when you get under someone’s skin, or they love you uncontrollably, you can definitely change them. The true question is why would you change your man? If you made the choice to date that person, you knew how they were before things got serious. I love hearing women say that they can change their men. Why not find the person who is right for you? Or what’s wrong with loving them for who they already are?

I think the problem with women is that we are naturally so motherly, and caring that we believe we are helping men. Making them better…when in actuality we are forcing them to loose their identity by becoming some god damned perfect Ken doll. People are not perfect, we were not meant to be, so changing a man will not make him love you more. In fact he could end up secretly hating you. If you find it absolutely necessary to change a man, so he fits your needs, maybe you should take a look in the mirror first. A lot of times, the changes we project on to our men are the ones we want to make for ourselves. But it is so much easier to change someone else? Don’t get me wrong, some men have bad habits, and are in need of help. There are many ways to help people without drastically changing them. Change can be a good thing, if it is done in a healthy way. Sometimes people want to change but don’t know how. Whatever the case may be, you have to let your man decide the changes he may want make on his own. It is better to not impose too much on the changes our men decide to make.

I’m a firm believer in letting people be themselves; especially when it comes to relationships. Women, lets face facts, you can’t make your man’s decisions for them, if so then you don’t have much of a man at the end of the day. You have pussy, and ladies, you don’t want two pussies sleeping under the same roof. Or do you?

Old Dog, New Dicks originally aired August 1, 1999. For more information on the episode click on the link below:

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0698653/